Newborns and Sleep Deprivation: How to Protect Your Marriage From Failure Amid the Challenges of Having a Newborn

Did you know that 1 in 5 couples break up within one year of welcoming a new baby? Discover effective strategies to protect your marriage while caring for a newborn! Learn how to navigate sleep deprivation and maintain a strong relationship during this challenging phase of parenthood, as we share some practical tips for new parents to thrive together.

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#AskTheDekus: Answering the Hottest Questions About Our At-Home Birth Experience

Why were we determined to have a vaginal birth after a C-section (VBAC) for our second pregnancy? Why did we end up having a VBAC at home and not at the hospital? What was our birth experience like, from crafting our detailed birth plan to the postpartum period? How did we deal with initial concerns expressed by our family about a home birth? We answer all your questions about our recent birth experience in this intimate Q&A!

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Our Positive Home Birth Story: Welcoming Our Second Baby

Discover our inspiring home birth journey we welcomed our second child, baby Kay, in the comfort of our own home. This captivating story highlights the flexibility, intimacy, and empowering experience that is a home birth after a previous C-section! As we share our story, we emphasise the significance of dim lighting, natural pain relief methods, and a dedicated home birth team in ensuring a successful home birth.

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6 Things We're Doing to Prepare for a Home Vaginal Birth After C-Section

Are you considering a home vaginal birth after a previous C-section? It's a daunting prospect, but with the right preparation and support, it can be a transformative and empowering experience! In this blog, we share our personal journey and the key strategies that have empowered us to take control of our birth experience. From booking a doula to educating ourselves on the birthing process, we highlight the importance of careful planning, emotional support, and informed decision-making.

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Why Did We Switch Hospitals for Our Second Pregnancy?

After a daunting C-section experience with our first child, our doula's questions led us to re-evaluate our birth plan and switch hospitals for our second pregnancy. Discover how this strategic move not only gained us confidence in our choices but also provided a supportive environment that respected our birth plan!

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Is C-Section the Best Birth Plan Option?

Is a C-section the right birth plan option for you? Crucial in many high-risk pregnancies, it has both benefits and risks. While it can ensure safety for mother and baby during complex deliveries, it also comes with potential complications. Our detailed guide explores when a C-section is recommended and how it stacks up against vaginal delivery to help you make an informed decision.

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How We’re Ensuring Mum Time for Our Eldest After Welcoming a New Baby

Discover how we’re navigating the challenges of welcoming a new baby while ensuring our eldest child still enjoys precious mum time. What strategies are we employing to maintain the strong mother-son bond our older child knows and prevent feelings of neglect?

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New Baby? Don’t Disrupt Your Older Kids’ Routines!

Welcoming a new baby brings big changes, but maintaining routines for older kids is key. How can consistency help older children be accepting of a new sibling? Find out how we’re maintaining our eldest’s sense of normalcy before and after the birth of our new child.

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Making Sure Our Son Feels Included With the Arrival of a New Baby

Avoid sibling jealousy when a new baby arrives by greeting your firstborn child first without holding the newborn. Discover what this simple yet thoughtful gesture can do to help cultivate positive sibling relationships and ease a smooth transition for older children.

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Baby on Board: Why We Include Our Firstborn Son in Shopping for Newborn Essentials

Discover how involving your firstborn in shopping for newborn essentials can ease the transition and foster a positive sibling relationship. Learn practical tips and benefits from our experience with Jere, our eldest, as we prepare him for his new role as a big brother.

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From “No Way” to “Okay”: How We Helped Our Older Child Accept a New Sibling

Firstborn children often resist the idea of a new sibling. In this blog, we detail how talking openly and involving our older child helps reduce anxiety and foster bonding. Follow the journey of little Jere going from “no way" to joyfully accepting his new sibling and learn practical tips for easing an older child's transition when a new baby joins the family.

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Newborn Preparation: 6 Ways We're Preparing Our Firstborn to Be a Big Brother

Welcoming a new baby brings joy and changes. As parents, we're taking steps to help our two-year-old son, Jere, transition smoothly into his new role as a big brother. From involving him in preparations to maintaining routines and bonding time, discover our 6 tips for easing older siblings into this exciting chapter.

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How to Survive on Maternity Pay

What strategies can we employ as a married couple to navigate maternity leave and pay without financial stress? How can we maximise our limited income during a one-year maternity leave and allocate funds wisely during this crucial time? How can we ensure financial resilience while enjoying precious moments with our newborn?

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Understanding Maternity Leave in the UK

What does maternity leave in the UK look like? What entitlements and pay options are available for expectant mothers? Can working mums earn enough money to provide for their families while on maternity leave? In hopes of helping you make informed financial decisions for your growing family, let’s explore working women’s financial rights in the UK during this crucial time in their lives.

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How Can Couples Financially Prepare for One-Year Maternity Leave With Maternity Leave Pay?

How can couples prepare for parenthood and provide for a newborn given the financial gap during a 52-week maternity leave? From understanding UK maternity leave policies to devising practical financial strategies, Join us in exploring ways to thrive during this life-changing journey.

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Q&A With Anna: The Intricacies of Building a Career in a Male-Dominated Industry While Navigating Motherhood

Uncover the remarkable journey of Anna, a driven career woman, as she shares her experiences of thriving in a male-dominated industry while embracing motherhood. Delve into her insights and triumphs in this revealing Q&A session. Excited to be inspired?

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Q&A With Gabes and Anna: How Does a Busy Married Couple Prepare for Second Pregnancy?

How do busy couples like us, Gabes and Anna, prepare for baby number two? In this question-and-answer session, we take you on our second pregnancy journey by answering some of the hottest questions you sent us on Instagram.

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