New Baby? Don’t Disrupt Your Older Kids’ Routines!
Jere takes after Gabes in so many ways, but most especially the way he thrives on routine. Any deviation can significantly affect his behaviour.
One of the most important things we plan to do is maintain Jere's routines as consistently as possible once the baby arrives.
On Saturdays, Jere plays football and swims. During the week, he attends nursery. Keeping his daily activities unchanged, especially in the first few weeks and months, will mostly fall on Gabes' plate.
Why We Should Maintain Our Older Kids’ Routines After Welcoming a New Baby
Sense of Security and Predictability
For toddlers like Jere, routines help them feel in control of their environment, which is crucial during times of change.
According to paediatrician Belliny Phaeton, MD, "Establishing a routine is very important for children because it provides them with a sense of security."
Our goal is to keep Jere’s sense of stability intact during this big transition, which is possible through predictable daily activities. The last thing we want is for him to feel disrupted by the arrival of his new sibling.
Emotional Stability
Consistent routines can help mitigate feelings of jealousy, resentment, or being left out.
When older children like Jere know that certain aspects of their day remain unchanged, it reassures them that they are still important and valued.
Behavioural Benefits
Maintaining routines can prevent regressive behaviours and temper tantrums.
If Jere feels secure in his routines, he’s less likely to act out for attention.
"Building routines with your children helps them to feel safe. They know what to expect when they go home, and it provides them with clear boundaries, expectations, and consistency,” said psychologist Dani Kaufman.
Health and Well-Being
Regular routines, especially those related to sleep, meals, and hygiene, support children’s physical health and well-being.
For example, consistent bedtime schedules allow Jere to enjoy better sleep quality, which is essential for his overall development.
The Bottomline
Ensuring Jere's routines remain steady during the arrival of his new sibling is crucial for his sense of security, emotional stability, and overall well-being.
By maintaining his regular activities, we can help him navigate this transition smoothly and feel valued amidst the changes.
How did you maintain your older kids’ routines after welcoming a newborn baby into your family? Leave a comment below to let us know what it was like for you!
Read here to find out what else we are doing to prepare our firstborn to be a big brother to our new baby.
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